招：似曾相识：拉近和对方的距离.
你跟我一个朋友长得好象.我们之前见过吧?
You look like someone I know. Haven't we met before?
第二招：借题发挥：只要有心,总是有借口.
That's a great haircut. 你的发型很棒.
“Hey, nice shoes.”鞋子很漂亮
You have a great smile.你笑起来好美。
第三招：略施小惠 ：别有目的
Can I buy you a drink?
我可以请你喝一杯吗？
